BRIDE OF CHRIST – PART 2
In part-1 I
mused on the startling results of a survey conducted by the Catholic weekly Sathyadeepam among
nuns. It revealed that behind the apparently happy exterior, there is a lot of
discontentment floating around in convents. The root cause of this state of
affairs can primarily be traced to the three vows of poverty, chastity, and obedience
that every nun professes. These vows are the pillars on which ascetic
monasticism, the idea that full spirituality is best achieved by renouncing the
world and its pleasures are built. The vow of poverty compels the religious to
detach herself from all material possessions; the vow of chastity forces her to
kill off all the natural God-given physical urges that are part of His grand
plan for the continuation of the human race; and the vow of obedience demands
the individual to blindly subject herself to other people’s will turning her
into part-zombie, part-robot.
The origin of
ascetic monasticism goes back to the third and fourth centuries. There were
many reasons for this idea to flourish at that time. Apostle Paul made Jesus a
‘salvation god’ on the lines of Osiris, the Egyptian god and believed in the
fallen nature of man. He turned
Christianity into a ‘salvation religion’. Like Plato, whose ideas he freely
borrowed, he also believed that every human was composed of an immortal soul
imprisoned in a physical and mortal body. Salvation can only be achieved
through a proactive suppression of the body for the sake of the soul.
These ideas
were supported and improved upon by Augustine of Hippo (354-430). In his effort
to explain evil in this world, he invented ‘original sin’. The debauchery of
his youth created such a guilty conscience in him that he declared sex the root
of all evil. Only married couples should be allowed to engage in this ‘dirty
act’. It should be done purely for procreation and not recreation. This mode of
thought added to the prestige of chastity.
During its
infancy, Christianity was unwilling to accept the practices of Rome. Many
became martyrs for their faith. However, with the conversion of Emperor
Constantine in 312 AD Christianity came into favor. The martyrdoms stopped.
Christians had to invent new ways of suffering for the sake of salvation. Since
the physical body was regarded as the root of all temptations, it had to be
brought under control through voluntary physical deprivations and sufferings.
The lack of opportunities for martyrdom and the need for controlling the
physical urges of the body so as to save the soul led to the idea of
monasticism. Hence the hair-shirts, the flagellations, the fasts, the bare-foot
walking, the nightlong vigils and the blind obedience that was quite common in
monasteries and convents until recently.
But times have
changed. The last two centuries have seen a surge in secular thinking. Belief
is giving way to reason. There is a realization that the promise of a
heaven after death is the biggest investment fraud committed
by two of the more popular religions: Christianity and Islam. At least, there
are 72 virgins catering to the martyr in the Islamic paradise whereas the good
Catholic can only expect to join a choir in heaven!
It is against
modern-day thinking on human rights to make people enter into a contract to
live a life of poverty, chastity, and obedience till death. It reminds one of
bonded labor that is still extant in certain parts of rural India. When a nun
takes the vow of obedience she literally pawns her life to her superiors and to
the Church hierarchy. The argument that she takes her vows only after she turns
18 is tenuous. It is well known that her indoctrination and spiritual
hallucinations start much earlier, often as a preteen.
The vow of
poverty is a double-edged sword. One requirement prior to the profession is the renunciation
of all rights to inheritance. This is one of the reasons for relatives to
encourage girls to become nuns. It saves the family the trouble of raising a dowry. Some senior nuns are of the opinion that poverty and the guarantee of a
secure life are the motivating factors for many undeserving candidates
nowadays to enter the convent. Many among them turn out to be trouble makers.
The fact that
the nun is forced to give away her rights to inheritance prior to her
profession discourages any thought of leaving the convent. As an ex-nun, she
has nothing in her name for survival. The perception that those who leave are
perverts unable to control their sexual urges and/or rebellious brats is spread
among the little lambs by convent authorities in connivance
with the hierarchy. The unhappy nun is forced to continue in the convent
against her will for fear of shame and unacceptability by her family and
relatives. As per canon law 503 (a) those who leave the convent cannot claim
anything for the services done there. Like used curry leaves, they are
unceremoniously thrown out. With their prime past in most cases, marriage
prospects are dim. Should one be surprised when reports of suicide in convents
appear in the media? And are all deaths reported natural?
The vow of
chastity goes against human nature itself. It is the cause of many of the
problems the church finds itself in. “The devil never harmed the church so much
as when the church herself adopted the vow of celibacy.” (Peter Comestor). The
belief that when she becomes a nun, she also becomes the ‘bride of Christ’ is
instilled in the young woman. Many in their teenage naivety take this twisted
compensatory theology to heart and fantasize about their ‘first night’ with
Jesus, as Sr. Jesme recalls in her autobiography Amen. The convent
becomes the bridal chamber. After all, Jesus the groom is a handsome young man
of thirty-three, something that enhances the intensity of her fantasies. Some
saints (e.g. Theresa of Avila) have taken this intense love for Jesus to the
erotic level. Psychologists refer to this phenomenon as ‘erotomanic delusion’,
a disorder in which someone claims that a famous person is married to or is in
love with her.
Has anyone the
right to deprive individual freedom in the name of obedience to ‘God’s will’
expressed through one’s superiors and the hierarchy? ‘God’s will’ is another
fraudulent idea perpetuated on the little lambs to keep them
in line. It has been observed that those engaging in continuous prayer,
meditation and fasting in an effort to suppress their natural urges tend to
develop neurotic problems. When such individuals are in charge, their
administrative style often becomes neurotic as well and hence unbearable.
However, under the vow of obedience, little can be done. Anyone who criticizes
the rules and policies of convent authorities is accused of madness and
confined to a mental asylum or they are ‘character-assassinated’. Surely, this
is inhuman.
The empire
building and the power-seeking that the Catholic Church began after the
conversion of Emperor Constantine continue today with much greater vigor than
ever. These days it is run on the lines of a multi-national company. But unlike
other multi-national companies, Catholic Church, headed by a self-proclaimed infallible
pope, continues to be feudal and dictatorial in its ways. A Global religious
empire has been created. Religious congregations are part of the global
religious colonization in the name of God. Its members, especially nuns, are
forced to lifelong servitude bordering on bonded labor to maintain and support
this establishment.
It is high time
enlightened Catholics give a sympathetic hearing to the problems of our sisters
and expose their exploitation in the name of religion/love of God/everlasting
happiness in heaven/etc./etc.
[Published in the March 2011 issue of 'Snehasandesham']